Become a prepared employer
If you hire a caregiver directly, you may become what the IRS calls a "household employer." It sounds intimidating. It's really just some manageable paperwork, and you don't have to do it alone.
When you go through an agency, the agency is the employer, they handle all of this. When you hire a caregiver directly and save the agency markup, that responsibility shifts to you. Here's the plain-language version of what that means.
In most cases, you're a household employer if all of these are true:
None of these is hard on its own, and a payroll service can do nearly all of them for you:
Our payroll setup checklist walks all of this step by step.
Very doable for a simple, steady schedule. You'll handle the EIN, tax withholding, quarterly or yearly filings, and the W-2. Some families use tax software to help.
A household-payroll service (often $40–$70/month) handles withholding, filings, and the W-2 for you. Most families find the peace of mind well worth it.
Paying "under the table" or handing a caregiver a 1099 might seem simpler, but it can create real tax problems for you, and it quietly costs the caregiver, no Social Security credits, no unemployment protection, no proof of income. Doing it properly protects both of you, and it's part of being the kind of employer good caregivers stay with.
Estimate your true monthly cost (including employer taxes), then work the setup checklist. You've got this.
Try the pay calculator →Often yes, once you pass the yearly pay threshold (around $2,800 in 2026). The number of hours matters less than the total pay and the fact that you direct the work.
It's risky and usually incorrect for a caregiver you schedule and direct. It can lead to back taxes and penalties, and it strips the caregiver of important protections.
It's a bit of setup and then a routine. A payroll service reduces it to almost nothing. Either way, it's very manageable.
This is general information, not tax or legal advice. Thresholds and rules change and vary by state. Confirm your situation with a payroll service or a tax professional, and see IRS Publication 926 (Household Employer's Tax Guide).